I love being a pansy

Followers of my sissy blog may have noticed many recent posts calling me a PANSY.  That's because I am a PANSY. Mistress Shari has been teaching me to feel very humiliated when I think about being a pansy and, even more so, when I am called a pansy. But, even with that I love being a PANSY and being told by others that I am a PANSY.

Thank you Mistress Shari. I love when you call me a PANSY. Well, a PANSY is a type of flower, so the term usually literally means "weak, delicate, fragile, soft, vulnerable, dainty, femme and sissy! I am all of these. 

I love when someone calls me a "PANSY" It's so humiliating!! 

 I'm going now to play with my dollies

I am so proud to show everyone what a precious little sissy girl and pretty pansy I am

A pansy among the pansies

 It's always so refreshing when fall season comes. I love when mommy or Mistress Shari takes me for a walk in the pretty gardens. They say I am "a pansy among the pansies!" Isn't that sweet?? She dresses me in my pink "Ballet Recital" dress. I feel so pretty and girly. I also brought Molly McIntire with me. I love bringing one of my dollies with me wherever I go. I love sharing my adventures with my dollies!

I met a lot of nice people and got so many compliments! I love sharing all about myself and my dolly and singing mu sissy songs!

Love, sissy princess Annie

Nikkita Custom Fit Pink Satin Lace Little Girl Sissy Dress PORTRAITS

 Sissy Prissy Pansy Annie loves her new dress

Thank you Mistress Shari. I love when you call me a pansy. Well, a pansy is a type of flower, so the term usually literally means "weak, delicate, fragile, soft, vulnerable, dainty, femme and sissy! I am all of these. 

I love when someone calls me a "Pansy" It's so humiliating!! - Sissy Annie

American Girl 2024 Pink Stardust Holiday Collector Doll

(An early birthday present for the darling sissy princess. 

She was allowed to name her new pretty dolly - "Sophia"

Sissy Princess Annie with her special collector dolls

(Belle and Sophia)

Isn't she just the most precious little sissy princess?

(note her build-a-bear plushies and shelved full of children's books for little sissy girls!

A special present for my sissy to wear everyday. She will receive this present soon!

It will be visible for everyone to see.

Mistress Shari

White lace and ruffles

Sissy Annie told me this TRUE story of when she was 5 years old. The dress, at the time, was very similar (pink with white lace and ruffles) to this new dress she had just received! Her Uncle and Aunty were thrilled to meet their new niece. A darling little sissy princess! Uncle and Auntie took sissy Annie out to a fancy restaurant for dinner to show her off. Mommy had brought Annie's favorite dolly with her to help make sissy Annie more comfortable in public.

Mistress Shari

Lovely little girls, in pretty dresses, among the gorgeous flowers

Prissy Pansy Annie

paper (magnetic) dolls for pre-schoolers

Mistress Shari gave me a present of paper dolls. But these are magnetic. Paper dolls get ruined so easily but these are hard plastic and will last forever! I have maybe 50+ pieces of dresses, shoes, accessories and many many more! These are just some quick examples. Aren't they pretty?

I love dressing up the 3 girls in the set and then having an adventure together. The next time I play dress-up dollies I will write a story to go along with the girls!

From Mistress Shari: 

These are for pre-school little girls. Ages 3-5. The magnetic parts adhere to the doll easily and are durable, compared to paper doll clothing. Not only are the magnetic backed wooden parts long lasting, but they are much easier for little hands to manipulate and thus do not cause the frustration. I remember being in tears as a child when my paper dolls tore, and these paper dolls required adult assistance to play with at a young age. Annie is a toddler/pre-school age so these are perfect for her!

Why do girls like paper dolls? 

Paper dolls have been used for advertising, appeared in magazines and newspapers, and covered a variety of subjects and time periods. Over the years, they have been used to reinforce cultural beliefs regarding the appearance of ideal women.

It's interesting to watch sissy annie play with "paper" dolls. She loves pretty dresses and gowns more than everything else girls and women wear. If there are slacks or pants in the set she will never put them on her dolls! It's all about looking pretty, cute, adorable and feminine to sissy Annie. 

Toddler / pre-schooler little sissy princess Annie

"Flower Faces" Dress

Customer review - Nikkita Custom Fit Pink Satin Lace Little Girl Sissy Dress by Leanne's

Sissy annie wrote this lovely review about her new dress! I love her last line: "It's so much fun to do a deep curtsy in this dress! It makes me feel like a pretty little pansy!"

Pansy,Petal,Fairy, Flower obedient little sissy wanker!

Mistress Shari

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Comments about PRISSY LITTLE PANSY:

- My favorite thing is to watch how Mistress Shari dominates and controls sissy annie and how sissy craves to please her Mistress! 

- Prissy little pansy annie is the true role model as a sissy princess. Mistress must be so pleased. 

-You are a PRISSY LITTLE PANSY and so much more. 

- "I am a prissy little pansy" - LOL! I am certain she loves being called that!! 

- Did Mistress Shari feed baby her bottle too? 

-Does Mistress Shari wank her prissy little pansy often? I sure hope so!

Annie's replies:  I am a prissy little pansy and I love people calling me that! Mistress Shari is my goddess and I worship her. I must please her in every way. I love when she feeds me my baby bottle! She wanks me most days. Sometimes more that once. She feeds me my sissy cream!

Comments about my Nikkita pink satin lace little girl sissy dress

- Love to see more photos of sissy in that lovely OTT sissy dress! 

- Love That she holds her dress out is so pansy-like. A pretty flower opening her petals to the sun! 

-  The dress is adorable! Pink is for little sissies. 
-  A prissy little pansy, and so much more, in that darling and lace dress!
- How sweet and humiliating! 100% prissy little pansy.
- OMG I could not stop laughing at those photos! 100% prissy little pansy. 
- That dress sure got a lot of attention! 

Annie's replies:  I love the pink satin and lace and the trim of white lace and the pretty ribbons and bows! The dress fits perfectly especially with 2 (or even 3) petticoats. Everyone who sees me can tell that I am a PRISSY LITTLE PANSY. I don't just look like a PRISSY LITTLE PANSY. I walk, talk and behave as a PRISSY LITTLE PANSY.

I am Mistress Shari's obedient little sissy wanker

My first Prayer to Goddess Shari

 

My Goddess Shari, so strong and powerful, who knows what is best for her little sissy girl.

I beg you to lay me over your lap, pull up my dress, pull down my panties, and  paddle me

I was born to serve, submit and worship my Goddess with my every thought and deed.

A weak, little sissy girl who requires a paddling as a constant reminder of her place.

"You are VERY  inadequate to worship me as your Goddess. That's the way it is and will always be. But you must strive to improve. That still means that you must still become weaker and fall deeper into my control. You must worship me with every breath and action.  I know what is best for you. Obedience comes naturally for you. Your dollification will make you a perfect dolly for me. A toy to play with and care for. Think of your dollies. That is who you are!" - Mistress Shari

Mia and Dani--A Dialogue: Season 2, episode 1a

As Dani stated in Season 1, episode #1 - Sissification involves humiliation. Feminization does not.
Most males should be feminized in order for them to understand that the women in their lives are in control. To sissify is to take their submission to a deeper level
A crossdresser is feminized but isn't necessarily humiliated. There is some overlap between the two. Sissification is a subset of feminization, specifically focusing on acting like a sissy.

1. How do you identify a candidate for feminization?

Dani replies:

I think the first indication of a good candidate is body language—how does the male move, stand, and sit? If he strides like an athlete, he’s a poor choice; if he walks more gently, even with a bit of a lilt to his step, that’s better. If he stands with his arms crossed or hands on hips, legs spread, that’s a no; if his stance is legs together, or one foot pointed in front of the other, with hands clasped at the waist, he’s well on his way to feminine posture. Similarly, sitting with legs spread wide, or one foot on the knee of the other leg, give him a pass; if, however, he sits with knees together or legs crossed at the ankles, that’s a potential fem-boy.

Voice is another clue. I don’t mean he should speak in falsetto or the stereotypical “gay” manner—rather, a soft-spoken tone, maybe a bit breathy is good. Vocabulary is a sign as well—are all his metaphors and similes sports-related? Then he’s probably not suitable. But if his topics tend to be literature, theater, music, he more likely has a feminine mindset already.

Of course, a slender, fine-featured male is easier to make look girly. But even big burly guys can be remade—after all, no one doubts the femininity of actresses like Melissa McCarthy or Queen Latifah, right?

The final consideration is “how does he react to you?” If you come on strong and dominant, does he try to outdo you? Or is his natural reaction to acknowledge your female superiority? If the latter, he’s well on his way to submissive feminization.

Mia will post her reply next week.

pansy photo #3

Yesterday mom and I took pansy annie to the botanical gardens to show of her new frilly , pink dress!  The name of the dress is Nikkita and can be found here!

We all know how much sissy loves her pretty pink party dresses! She was so excited to have another one.

I taught her, for the day, to say "I am a prissy little pansy" (and then curtsy) to everyone who approachs her. Sissy loves being the center of attention and being shown off!

The dress is made with pink satin and lace and trimmed with white lace and pink ribbons and bows! Sissy was diapered in cloth with plastic baby pants. I love diapering her the traditional way. Cloth diapers and large diaper pins. The baby pants crinkled (loudly) as she walked.

In your comments, please tell sissy what a prissy little pansy she is!

The term "pansy" as an insult meaning "weak" or "cowardly" originated in the late 19th century. The flower pansy (Viola x wittrockiana) was associated with qualities like delicacy and weakness, likely due to its soft, velvety petals. By the 1870s, "pansy" was being used as a derogatory term to refer to an effeminate or weak man. This usage emerged from the existing association of pansies with femininity and fragility. Over time, "pansy" took on the meaning of someone who is timid, cowardly, or lacking in masculinity.

There is a Japanese word that can be used to refer to a "weak or overly sensitive male" in a derogatory way: "kanchou". This word is derived from the Japanese term for the pansy flower, "sumirenzu", and has taken on a derogatory connotation similar to the English usage of "pansy" to refer to an unmasculine or effeminate man.

The original meaning of pansy was a small, pretty flower. Flowers are delicate and dainty growing things that people admire for their beauty. Equating sissies to a flower (or pansy, bloom, blossom, etc). Sissies are delicate, dainty, fragile, vulnerable, weak and helpless!

(Annie's review -  I love all my pretty pink party dresses! I was so excited to receive another one. I love the pink satin and lace and the trim of white lace and the pretty ribbons and bows! The dress fits perfectly especially with 2 (or even 3) petticoats. We went to the botanical gardens for pictures! I received so many compliments! It's so much fun to do a deep curtsy in this dress! It makes me feel like a pretty little pansy!)

Mistress Shari
 

Annie's blog followers

It is shameful that sissy annie's blog is not attracting many new followers. I want her to be more "out there" in order to drive more followers to her blog! Sissy is a beautiful and darling little sissy girl and should be much more visible. She is a role model for all other sissies. I am very proud to be her Mistress!

I created this. I will post ot on her FLICKR account and on other places. Any suggestions for marketing and posting would be appreciated. I will make other versions of this to post on a regular schedule.

I have also created a profile for her on Quora.com as an experiment. She now has about 15 followers and lots of lovely comments like this:

❤️😊💋😊❤️ Sissy Princess Annie, You are a pretty pansy, petal, fairy, flower, little sissy girl! XOXO for you, too! I am very happy for you because you seem to have truly found true happiness and your purpose for the rest of your life. That’s beyond wonderful! Congratulations!!! ❤️😊💋😊❤️

Sissy Annie sent this to Ms Dani and I today:

"I want you to know that in the last month or so I have become a mindless little sissy whose only thoughts are being obedient to Goddess Shari and craving and begging for her approval. I need to be displayed and humiliated. I am her dolly to be played with as she desires. I must be wanked and fed my sissy cream for good sissy health." 

Mistress Shari

pansy photo #2

 Pansy#1

(history by Ms Shari)

There are just times when one sees a certain pic and you recognize it as a "PANSY" photo. It's obvious! Just a reminder that "PANSY" is a term used to mean a male regarded as gay, effeminate, or simply a weakling. As an adjective, it applies to things, such as clothes (skirts ,dresses, etc),associated with such a person. (Urban Dictionary)

The insult "pansy" actually comes from the French "pensée", which is the past tense of "to think", but is also a feminine reflexive. This term came about in the mid-fifteenth century, and essentially, it was used pejoratively to describe a man who thinks too much (like a woman is the intimation). Thinking men were not brawny, active, robust men, therefore they were thought to be slightly effeminate. It wasn't until 1929 that the term "pansy" came to mean sissy boi.

Which dress is the most "Pansy-like"?

I am a pansy, petal, fairy, flower sissy girl!

Fairy Princess Annie

Disney Princess Pansy Annie

Pink Polka-Dot Pansy Annie

Pink Polka-Dot Pansy Annie

Pink Bows Pansy Annie

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Ms Melanie definitely knows her sissies! What a lovely encounter! I could not stop laughing ar Ms Melanie's statement "I eat little sissies for lunch!" Sissy will be helpless to resist! Sissy had better be respectful and obedient!That look from Ms Melanie!

Ms Melanie! We're on for Saturday at noon for sissy's paddling.   Sissy Annie is looking forward to showing you how obedient she is!! 

Can't wait to hear all about sissy's paddling! What happened?? We all want to know. Did sissy get a good paddling? That's so usual for sissies! They love being taken out and shown off! Sissy will tell all when she writes the "Replies to" post of "Dear sissy Annie". No worries. She was paddled and grateful!

OMG! Looks like sissy is in for it! Sissy will do anything for the attention she seeks! How awesome and breathtaking is this?? Little sissy is crying from all the humiliation! That toon of a sissy crying and holding her dolly is a reminder of how juvenile, helpless and needy sissy really is. But her mommy is always there to keep her safe. Sissies need lots of reminders because the are basically children and need to be controlled!

What happened Saturday a few weeks ago by Sissy Annie:

Mistress Shari, Mistress Sweet, Ms Hayes and I all went to the beautiful gardens for a picnic. Ms Melanie was to meet us there by noon. When we got there we found a quiet area with some privacy and laid out our blankets, chairs and everything else. I was wearing my pink ballet recital dress and my fairy wings.

Mistress Shari took me by the hand for a walk around the park. We met lots of people and introduced myself, did deep curtsies and sang and recited some of my sissy songs and poems. I also posed for lots of pictures and gave out my personal card!

When we returned to the picnic Ms Melanie had arrived. I sat down next to her as she directed. She still had lots of questions for me about my life as a little sissy princess. I showed her lots of pretty pictures of me. We ate a little lunch. Mistress Shari had brought some baby food of which she fed me  After that Ms Melanie had me prance around the area like a fairy princess sissy. I think she took some movies.

Then she told me it was time for my paddling. She sat at a wide bench and had me lay over her lap - over her knees. She pulled up my dress and pulled down my panties to my ankles. I was feeling very vulnerable and scared. She caressed my bottom with her hand and the suddenly "Whack". I was shocked and I screamed. 

She asked me "Does sissy baby need her dummy?"  I said "Yes" and Mistress Shari put my dummy in my mouth. After each whack I had to say "thank you, may I please have another". My dummy kept falling out of my mouth. I was trying hard not to scream. I think I got 25 whacks. Mistress Shari helped me up and to get my clothes rearranged. She had me curtsy and thank Ms Melanie. Then Ms Melanie held me in her arms and hugged me. The next thing she did was feed me a baby bottle of apple juice.

Ms Melanie said she would save her remaining cards for another time. Mistress Shari gave her a few more.

Love, Sissy Princess Annie

Why I ALWAYS wear dresses - cause I am a sissy!

The first  and obvious reason is that I am a sissy. Sissies are not boys or men and are forbidden from wearing pants or slacks. But more that than I just adore wearing dresses because they make me feel so pretty and girly.

I do love the feeling of a beautiful dress with lots of petticoats as I walk and move.

 

But wearing a dress also takes lots of care. When sitting I must keep my knees locked so not to show my panties. I also have to be so careful when it is windy outside. A strong gust of wind blows up my skirt and shows everyone my panties and more. I get punished for those things.

 

Mommy loves me in dresses, for  these reasons, among others:

 

I have been trained to curtsy and introduce myself to everyone I meet to show what a darling sissy princess I am. I must be in a dress to do a perfect curtsy. Mommy told me ONLY sissies curtsy anymore.

 

When I am a naughty sissy or do not listen to Mommy she puts me over her lap face down, pulls up my dress and pulls down my panties to paddle me. Mommy believes in immediate punishment so I don’t forget what I did wrong. I must thank mommy for the punishment after.

 

I always feel weak, helpless, defenseless and very vulnerable in a dress.  Mommy says that is very natural for a little girl sissy. Especially for a fairy like me who loves to be ultra femme and sissy!

These pcs were taken at a little girlfriend's (Emma & Krista) birthday tea Everyone loved that I was matching my dolly's dress!I got to walk around the dining room and show off my pretty pink sissy dress!

I am a fairy, flower, pansy, petal little girl sissy!

I love Mistress Shari

Sissy Magazine #9, September