Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode 17

Question for Ms Dani:
What are the most humiliating girly names for a sissy? I have read that a girly middle name is an absolute MUST for a sissy! At what age should a sissy be referred to by his girly name? How does having a real girly name affect the sissy's self-identification?

Ms. Dani replies:

I have a mix of feelings about sissy names. Most commonly a sissy is given a name that is a feminine variant of his male name, such as Donald becoming Donna or Charles becoming Charlotte. All well and good (after all my name is a feminine variant of my own middle name). And, yes, if that is the path the mistress intends to take, “christening” the new sissy as soon as possible is the best choice. I’d even suggest using it when he is in male mode (especially in public), as it will only add to the humiliation a sissy should feel from his feminization.

However, I think there are other equally valid choices to make. It might be useful to give the sissy a particularly silly or childish feminine name. Appellations such as “Trixie” or “Cookie” or “Ginger” will indicate to the sissy that he is not at all a “normal” girl, but a caricature of femininity. Again, referring to him by these terms even when he is wearing masculine attire will solidify his reduction in status.

And yet, there may be another way to go—don’t change his name at all. This may work best when his male name is something so obviously masculine that there is no generally accepted feminine equivalent. Names such as “Roger” or “Howard” or “Stanley”—when used for a male who is dressed in the most feminine and/or childish of manners—can be particularly humiliating. Imagine mincing down the street in heels and a miniskirt while your female companion calls you “Herbie” loud enough for all to hear!

Obviously, the choice should be the domme’s to make…and the sissy should accept it as the only thing he will be known by in the future.

Question for Mistress Amelia:
What is proper attire for the sissy who works in an office? Prim and proper? Sexually provocative?