Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode 15

Question for Sissy Dani:
What are the schools of thought around sexual control? Some seem to prefer denial using chastity. Locking the clit up to prevent touching and wanking under all circumstances.
The other option is to allow a regimen of wanking on a regular basis (weekly, monthly, etc) under strict control of the mistress. Both approaches are humiliating to the sissy because they reinforce that the sissy had never been a real man.

Sissy Dani responds:

Actually, I believe the issue is not so much control of touching and wanking as it is absolute denial of “normal” intercourse with a woman. The sissy should never be permitted to penetrate a female in any way—vaginally, orally, or anally. His orgasms, if any, must come from other methods.

Certainly, regular wanking might be one method, preferably with the stimulation being provided by the Mistress, not the sissy himself. I have known some dommes who think the proper approach is to completely drain the sissy at every wanking—to cause ejaculation after ejaculation until the sissy cannot spurt again. The reason is that it is thought that a sissy who has been so drained is completely empty of masculine “contamination” and more easily feminized and dominated.

Other dommes believe the sissy should be trained to get sexual satisfaction in as close to a feminine manner as possible. They combine physical stimulation of the genitals with stimulation of the nipples (either “tweaking” or sucking), so that the sissy learns to associate such feminine sensations with ejaculation. Some report the sissy trained in this manner can be brought to orgasm by nipple play alone. In conjunction with this—or as an alternative—these dommes also teach the sissy proper methods of cunnilingus, creating what has been termed a “male lesbian,” as the sissy grows to prefer such a submissive performance to ordinary intercourse. Of course, this also provides the domme with physical sexual pleasure as well.

Still others reverse ordinary penetrative intercourse. Using strap-on dildos or vibrators, they invade the sissy’s anus. Done correctly, this can stimulate the prostate and cause an erection-less orgasm…one that, like a female orgasm, can be repeated multiple times in a short period. (Like the “draining wanking,” this can also reduce masculine contamination.)

Obviously, all these methods are humiliating to the sissy, as they force him to realize that there is nothing traditionally masculine left to him.

Question for Mistress Amelia:
Is it moral and ethical for a mother, step-mother, aunt, or other guardian to begin feminization of a child at an early age?