Catching Up on Sissy Magazine

While this blog was off line, I continued to produce new covers for the magazine; some of them did not feature Annie. Here are the ones you missed:

Love, Dani

Sissy Magazine #19

This is the first issue of Sissy Magazine to cover-feature a pansy other than Annie. If you'd like to be on the cover, post a sample in the comments.

Sissy Magazine #11

Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode 10

Dani asked:
Have you ever so completely feminized and dominated a male as to make him a permanent sissy?

Mistress Amelia responds:

Yes, I have. But first I must define “Sissy” and “permanent sissy”. Sissy is derogatory name for someone, specifically a male, who seems weak or cowardly and acts and dresses in a stereotypically feminine way. A male who does not demonstrate masculine traits. One who is interested in things traditionally associated with girls and women.

Within gay, particularly gay male culture, is found the concept of the “sissy”, though it isn’t exclusive to the community. The word is most often used as a particularly hurtful synonym for an effeminate male, and its application in this particular context is meant to produce shame and derision. Sometimes it refers to a man who exhibits a particularly stereotypical notion of effete homosexuality.

In a transgender context, however, it most often refers to a biological male who willingly mimics and eagerly takes on hyper-feminine attitudes for the sake of sexual gratification. This is a behavior known as feminization and often contains an aspect of cross-dressing. The trans umbrella is the broadest one of all since gender is often one of the most poorly defined aspects of human expression.

There is a sharp definition between those who practice transvestic fetishism or cross-dressing, and those who identify strongly with the opposite gender in ways that go well beyond a sex act. The two are often related, though, particularly when one contemplates that feelings of humiliation linked to a reversal of traditional gender roles are present. It is worth considering how easily trauma can be incorporated into sexual desire and the act itself, even taking on a paradoxically pleasurable quality.

The two males that I feminized and sissified were already sissies but only part time. They tried to hide their sissy natures but not very successfully. What they had in common are being deeply submissive and craving to be out for who they really were (are). My denial of release only made them crave deeper sissification and my approval. They both currently live an ultra girly lifestyle.

Question for Ms Dani:
Do you believe there is truly a concept of “Forced Femme?” I think it is a misnomer. From my experience most males are terrified by it, but nevertheless, crave it! Their male sexuality only makes them more susceptible to feminization.

Sissy Magazine #2

Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode four

Referring to Holly and annie’s situation, Dani asked:

Would you ever want such total responsibility for a submissive sissy’s well-being? I can tell you that I, personally, would never want to surrender myself to another person so completely.

Mistress Amelia responds:

That's an excellent question. In Ms Holly's case she truly wanted a child. Specifically a little girl who would not grow up. She explained to me, when I first met sissy annie, that her only choice was to find an extremely submissive sissy who was also a "little". That is a sissy with a persona of a child. Ms Holly totally immersed Annie in the lifestyle of a five-year-old little girl—pretty dresses, girly interests and the like. Have you seen Annie's princess room and playroom? That has had a major psychological effect on the little darling's psyche, with, of course, lots of positive reinforcement. Sissy Annie reached the point where she could not care for herself and needed a legal guardian. That means that Ms Holly is legally obligated to keep Annie safe, healthy and happy including financially. It's a big responsibility. But now they have what each other desires--Ms Holly has her little girl sissy who will never grow up. Sissy Annie loves her darling world of princesses and unicorns! So childish and adorable.

I know that I personally could not take that much responsibility for a sissy. I have feminized and sissified quite a few sissies. But that was always for a set period of time to reach specific sissy goals.

However, I am well aware of married men who have been sissified/feminized by their wives (with professional assistance) and been given a more traditional domestic role. The couple usually create a contract where the submission is spelled out in detail. The female has responsibilities for the sissy's well- being and the sissy's responsibilities are the new reality. In many of these relationships the sissy becomes the domestic. aka sissy maid, as it were, which I feel is the perfect role for a mature sissy.

My question for you:

Sissy Annie's goals are:
1. To be a dainty & delicate little girl sissy in the way I think, act and present myself
2. To completely accept female control and never question what I am told to do
3. To be proud to show everyone what a precious little girl and pretty princess I am

Please comment on the appropriateness of these goals and if you would update them in any way or add additional goals. Are these goals universal for all sissies or, if not, how would you write them to make them apply to all sissies?

Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode three

The next question is posed by Mistress Amelia:

At what stage of childhood development do you estimate sissy annie to be?

I'm NOT referring to a specific age. Her mommy says she lives the lifestyle of a five-year-old. Her love of her dolls is very substantial. What are her behaviors and her interests that help you pinpoint her development? One thing I do NOT see is any sign of independence. That's very normal for a sissy--total submission.

Sissy Dani responds:

It is clear that, psychologically, sissy annie is a pre-school toddler. Her devotion to her dolls and her Mommy is an indication of that. On the other hand, she is decidedly a physically normal adult male, something I discovered when she developed (with my help) an erotic reaction to wearing silk and satin panties. Her genitals respond to stimulation as you would expect. Her total submission, as you term it, is another sign of that arrested development.

She is somewhat narcissistic. She adores being admired and praised for her sissy-ness and is proud to show off by performing and revealing how like a little girl she is. Her entire situation is, I think, what a lawyer would call sui generis. It is its own thing; there's nothing else like it. Her legal status as a child, with a guardian, makes her unlike any other “little girl” sissy I have ever heard of.

And now, my question for Mistress Amelia: Would you ever want such total responsibility for a submissive sissy’s well-being? I can tell you that I, personally, would never want to surrender myself to another person so completely.

Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode two

 

The conversation continues with a question from Sissy Dani: “What is the proper age to begin a male’s feminization/sissification?” I think it is best to start at puberty, when it is easiest to tie all the necessary changes to his awakening sexual awareness.)

 

Mistress Amelia responds:

 

I agree with you,  it is best to start before puberty, but that would only be possible if we lived in a female-run society where feminization/sissification was an accepted norm. In that society, a specific percentage (25%?) of males would be allowed to remain as males for procreation purposes and other masculine jobs as per the requirements of that female-led society. The rest of the males would be feminized/sissified and trained in what are perceived as mostly female professions today. Nursing, secretarial, beauty, fashion, etc. Those males would be focused on their feminine appearance and their girly interests.  The most desired position for a sissy would be as a sissy maid to a dominant female. Only females would be allowed higher education.

 

In our current society gender affirming care for transgender males is becoming more prevalent. Female hormones should be administered before the onset of male puberty. I'm not an expert here but a professional will be able to determine, on an individual basis, when that should be. The sissy must be in a social environment where everything about his feminization/sissification is 100% reinforced.

 

Sissy Annie's birth mom recognized that he was a sissy at an early age. She began to  petticoat him at a very early age. I think she started him on female hormones about age 12. By then his socialization and interests were extremely girly. He was already in dresses full time, using makeup and loving his dolls!

 

Next Question: 

At what stage of childhood development do you estimate sissy annie to be? I'm NOT referring to a specific age. Her mommy says she lives the lifestyle of a five-year-old. Her love of her dolls is very substantial. What are her behaviors and her interests that help you pinpoint her development? One thing I do NOT see is any sign of independence. That's very normal for a sissy--total submission.

 

Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode one

This will be a series of exchanges between Mistress Amelia Rodgers and me, Pretty Sissy Dani. It begins with this question from Mistress Amelia:

 "What do you feel are the three most critical aspects/trainings of sissification?"

Sissification involves humiliation. Feminization does not. A sissy is feminized to be humiliated and trained to be submissive (sissification). A crossdresser is feminized but isn't necessarily humiliated. There is some overlap between the two. Sissification is a subset of feminization, specifically focusing on acting like a sissy

 

Pretty Sissy Dani responds:

On the whole, I agree—but in my case there was no training necessary for either humiliation or submission. From the time I first realized I was a sissy (in my “tween” years), I was naturally feminine and submissive. I desired a dominant female to take charge of me and improve my feminine nature. She wouldn’t have to force me into anything…but guide me, especially when I resisted for societal and cultural reasons.

On the other hand, I think even a non-sissy crossdresser feels humiliation when seen in feminine attire—even clothes that are perfectly normal and ordinary for the occasion. He knows he is not a girl or woman and that society would view him as lowering himself by presenting as one. (Even though he knows, deep down, that such thinking is nonsense. In all respects, women are superior, aren’t they?)

Although I love seeing them, I have never had any interest in being a little girl sissy. My self-image as Dani ranges in age from about 16 to 30. (Yes, I continued to dress well into my 60s, but even then my style choices were more suited to younger girls--short skirts, very high heels.)

Acting like a sissy in that age range involves smiling and flirting, showing off the sexier side of your personality (but without descending to “bimbo,” which is a whole different thing). A sissy wants to be stereotypically girlish.

Does that answer your question?

Now, a question for Mistress Amelia: What is the proper age to begin a male’s feminization/sissification?

I think it is best to start at puberty, when it is easiest to tie all the necessary changes to his awakening sexual awareness.

Introducing Pretty Sissy Dani

 

As a new member of the authorial team here, I feel I should introduce and explain myself.

I am Pretty Sissy Dani, owner and editor of the blog Entransed, through which I met Ms. Holly and sissy annie. I have since become a part of their extended “family,” annie’s older cousin, and I am assisting Ms. Holly in her raising and training of her darling “daughter”. Like annie, I am a sissy, but unlike her, no one had to “feminize” me. I have been drawn to girlish feelings since my pre-teen years, although I have never sought to live full time as a female and definitely not to be seen as a child. I am, however, submissive to women, including Ms. Holly, although I also have an interest in observing and participating in the feminization of other males. I suppose, at one level, I so enjoy being girly, I think all males should have the opportunity to experience the sensation.

I believe that, with the proper motivation and care, any male, of any age, can be feminized and enjoy it. At heart, all males admire women  and envy them; they just need to be convinced to admit it.

In addition, I am a “hypno-fetishist”; that is, I am aroused by being hypnotized or seeing others put in trance. I have learned enough to be able to hypnotize others especially if, like annie, they are already extremely submissive. I think I am successful at it because, being submissive, girlish, and extremely susceptible to hypnosis, I can guide others into trance by recognizing when they are surrendering to my power.

For those interested, here’s gallery of the many “looks” I’ve had over the past 15 years.

Got a question or comment for me? Leave it here or, if it’s a bit too personal, e-mail me: prettysissydani@gmail.com