Today’s post is “inspired” by coming across some unquestionably toxic “sissy recovery” groups on a certain social media site. I saw these groups being quite popular and thought it would be a good idea to add my two cents.
Get over it, boys. Being a sissy is nothing to be ashamed of. Let’s face it, society has a lot of preconceived notions about masculinity and femininity. Unfortunately, most of these notions involve men repressing their “feminine” traits and conforming to an established alpha male image. But who says that’s the only way to be a man?
Get over it, boys. Being a sissy is nothing to be ashamed of. Let’s face it, society has a lot of preconceived notions about masculinity and femininity. Unfortunately, most of these notions involve men repressing their “feminine” traits and conforming to an established alpha male image. But who says that’s the only way to be a man?
For those of you who don’t fit into society’s narrow definition of masculinity, there’s a growing community of men who have embraced their girly side. But despite the slowly-growing acceptance of gender nonconformity, most sissies/crossdressers/transgirls still believe they need to be “cured” of their tendencies.
Sorry, but I call it nonsense. First of all, being a sissy is not a sickness that needs to be cured. It’s a beautiful expression of gender and sexuality. Just because it doesn’t fit into society’s standards doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with it. And let’s not forget that these “sissy recovery” groups are run by people who have issues with gender and sexuality. They’re projecting their insecurities onto others and trying to control how men should express themselves.
I don’t want to say, however, that being a sissy can’t turn into an unhealthy habit, and there should be support groups helping you change that. But it’s not being a sissy itself that should be cured. Ask yourself, how really your actions are affecting your life?
If, let’s say, you have a porn addiction and you’re spending hours watching videos and neglecting your responsibilities, then yes, you have a problem. But on the other hand, I’ve met plenty of girls who started dieting and exercising because they wanted to look better. In their case, embracing their girly side led to having healthier and longer lives. Who in their right mind would see anything wrong with this?!
One of the best things about embracing your sissy side is the freedom to be yourself. You don’t have to conform to anyone’s expectations but your own. Don’t let anyone dim your sparkle or make you feel like there’s something wrong with being a sissy. For those who may be struggling with their sissy identity, I encourage you to embrace it and find your tribe. Surround yourself with people who accept and celebrate you for who you are. Trust me, it’s a game-changer.
To sum things up — being a sissy is not a flaw or something to be recovered from. It’s a unique and beautiful part of who you are. So own it, flaunt it, and let your fabulous sissy flag fly high!
Sissy Annie is a true role model for sissies everywhere! She loves everything about being a darling and delicate sissy princess! She adores her pretty dresses and her little darlings! Her dedication to being feminine and girly sweet is outstanding!
