I am a FEMDOM - a BDSM term describing a sexual or romantic dynamic where a woman takes the dominant role, controlling, leading, or disciplining a submissive partner. In my practice I have encountered many sissies. Many have been referred to me to help them understand exactly who they are and how to accept being a sissy!
It emphasizes a power shift where the woman is in control, ranging from specific sexual scenes to full Female-Led Relationships (FLRs). I believe that most males should be contro]led by women and be trasforned into weak, submissive and obedient sissies.
---- Dr Abigail Dotson.
Sissy Annie Pansy is a client. Her mother brought her to me to sissify when she was very young.
We began with petticoating that revolves around the "little girl" aspect in which the submissive/child is forced to act like a little girl. Other scenarios include infantilism and sissy maid.
Sissy Annie is emotionally, intellectually, legally and in every way a child. She is loved, cared for and nurtured by her mommy. She lives the lifestyle of a 4 year old little girl.
She has a lovely princess room with a vanity and a closet for her pretty dresses. She also has a playroom for her lovely dollies.
What little girl does not love the special playtime she has with her dollies. She always carries one with her where ever she goes.
FISH Academy means Feminization, Infantalization, Sissification, and Humiliation. Sissy Annie Pansy is a graduate of FISH Academy. Much more on that later.
WHAT EXACTLY IS A SISSY?
A sissy is basically a submissive crossdresser. She may be gay (attracted to males) but often not. A sissy has a fascination for the feminine. She would rather wear beautiful clothes than be with a girl that wears them—although she would enjoy that too.
As a male, a sissy would prefer to go down on a girl than to actually fuck her. Since she’s submissive by nature, a sissy is not typically confident around an attractive woman. Her cock—that will soon be morphing into a limp, useless clitty under your tutelage—is frightened by a cute girl.
A sissy would rather just tuck her clitty into her panties and be an obedient domestic/sexual servant. While most sissies are heterosexual, they do require a man occasionally, but only as an instrument to validate their femininity. Gay sissies are obviously attracted to men and can evolve into the best fuck toys and cocksuckers on the planet.
Sissies in pretty dresses attending to applying lovely lipstick! So pretty and girly!!
What Does it Mean to be a Sissy?.
Things can certainly get confusing inside of a sissy’s pretty little head. In the quest for clarity, I offer up the following article that I discovered online a while back that resonates with me.
Although these words were written from one sissy’s perspective, I feel it comes close to explaining what is going on inside the mind of many—not all—sissies. Personally I would use CD or crossdresser in lieu of the term transvestite as the latter word is somewhat outdated.
(A perfect image of a little girl sissy. Completely childish in her juvenile dress. Loving the Disney Princesses as her role models!)
Sissies are a distinct breed of transvestites.
A sissy is a transvestite who’s primary sexual interest lies not just in wearing feminine clothing, but in becoming an exaggerated version of femininity. Femininity as seen through the lens of traditional hetero male sexual desire.
Sissies are not seeking to become women in a normal sense, but are instead seeking to become the object of their desires. Their ultimate fantasy woman if they were normal, rather than being a sissy.
Sissies are transvestites who can’t be sated by just throwing on some panties and jerking off. They must strive to become their ideal female. This means the fetish will transcend the bedroom, and creep into the rest of their life. A full wardrobe, makeup, wigs, etc.<br>
Sissies will spend more time looking at women’s outfits than they will looking at the women wearing them. Sissies keep their body hair shaved, likely wear panties (or more!) at all times, nail polish on their toes, etc. Being a sissy takes commitment and dedication.
Sissies are bisexual, but not in the traditional sense. You aren’t going to see a sissy settle down and marry a man. You won’t find many that will say they find men attractive. Remember, a sissy seeks to become the embodiment of what their dream woman would be.
As such, their interest in pleasing men is distinct from that of homosexual men. Their interest in men comes from seeking validation that they have achieved their sissy goal: being feminine enough to interest “straight” men. They aren’t into the men themselves as much as the men are sex objects that a sissy uses to confirm her own sissyness.
Sissies are submissive. You can be a crossdresser who makes an effort to look the part and not be submissive, but that means you are not a sissy. A sissy gets off on pleasing others. She doesn’t worry about herself or her pleasure nearly as much.
This is where you see chastity and cuckolding come into play for a lot of sissies. Chastity is sought because it allows a sissy to stay horny, giving them the drive to further their sissy desires (rather than losing them after orgasm). Cuckolding is natural because if a sissy is going to have a wife or girlfriend (remember, sissies aren’t typically into men romantically), by her nature a sissy is unlikely going to be able to be much of a man when it comes to sex
As such, not only is the woman more likely to look elsewhere for those needs, the sissy herself shouldn’t mind. Her wife isn’t cheating on the sissy with “another man”, but is having sex with “a man”. The sissy isn’t a man anymore, so why should she be jealous that her wife needs a man from time to time? If anything, the sissy can relate. She needs a man sometimes too!
Sadly, the term sissy tends to be overused these days. Guys with thick body hair showing off their one pair of panties, or ones where their small wardrobe is a mishmash of mismatched clothes that no woman would ever wear, these sorts are all using the term sissy. Guess what guys? You aren’t a sissy. You may have the mindset, you may be working towards it, but until you get there, you aren’t one.
You need to learn fashion, makeup, and you need to work towards looking hot. Instead of doing just enough sissy stuff to get your cock hard, you need to focus on doing enough to get someone else’s cock hard. In a world of pantyboys, you need to rise above. You need to embrace what it means to truly be a sissy and dedicate yourself to it.
(Sissy Annie Pansy loves her dolly and takes such good care of her!!)
Next Lesson - Step #1 Train a Sissy – Elementary Emasculation
