Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode 14

Question for Mistress Amelia:
Is a male who has to be forced into femininity preferable to one who comes by it naturally?

A dominant female, like myself, enjoys the sight of a submissive sissy out in public. That type of sissy literally begs females for attention. It’s almost too easy to collar the sissy and humiliate him. It can be entertaining and pleasurable to sissify and feminize the willing sissy. Especially by taking sexual control through chastity or limited wanking. The sissy is so weak that the Mistress can make the sissy her dolly!

I do like a bit of a challenge. Among males who are drawn to feminization, “forced” is merely a way to make their submission to girliness seem more acceptable. “She made me do it” is easier to explain than “I begged for it.” Of course, not every cross-dresser is submissive. Some simply prefer feminine clothes and wish to present the image of a beautiful woman. But in my experience, those cross-dressers who meet with a dominant woman are quickly converted to subs.

I like to start with the sissy wearing bright pink lipstick. My favorite is "Estee Lauder Pure Color Envy Sculpting Lipstick - # 240 Tumultuous Pink.” I then require the sissy to remove his compact from his purse every half hour to check if his lipstick is still perfect. In time, it becomes a habit for the sissy--intense girlyness!!

Question for Sissy Dani:
What are the schools of thought around sexual control? Some seem to prefer denial using chastity. Locking the clit up to prevent touching and wanking under all circumstances.
The other option is to allow a regimen of wanking on a regular basis (weekly, monthly, etc) under strict control of the mistress. Both approaches are humiliating to the sissy because they reinforce that the sissy had never been a real man.