Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode 24

Sissy Dani asks:
Should a female boss insist on a feminine dress code for all employees—male and female?

When it comes to a female-owned and -managed business, I would strongly approve and encourage the women to set a dress and behavior policy that is strictly feminine.

The type of business will determine whether the dress code is casual, dressy casual, semi-formal or business formal. Females should be given more flexibility in dress which include tailored slacks. Males will not be allowed to wear slacks. They must always be in skirts or dresses and heels.

Casual dress code is synonymous with comfort yet it demands a sense of style. This is not about your loungewear or the oversized tee you love for lazy Sundays. It's about striking a balance between ease and fashion. It's the realm where sundresses, neat jeans, and tailored shorts reign. The key is to look approachable and relaxed while maintaining a polished appearance. What to Wear: Opt for a sundress, a long or short skirt, jeans, khakis, or well-fitted jeans. Pair these with a plain T-shirt, polo, turtleneck, or a casual button-down blouse.

Navigating through the Dressy Casual terrain can be tricky, but it's all about a sophisticated touch to everyday wear. It's less about formality and more about looking well put together. Perfect for occasions that are casual yet require a hint of elegance. What to Wear: Choose from a variety of options like a stylish dress, a skirt paired with a dressy top, dressy pants outfits, or nice jeans teamed with a chic top.

Semi-Formal attire is your opportunity to shine without the rigidity of full formal wear. It's often chosen for events like dinner parties, business gatherings, or weddings. This dress code calls for polished, graceful outfits that are a notch above everyday wear but not as extravagant as formal attire. What to Wear: A short afternoon or cocktail dress, a "little black dress", a long dressy skirt and top, or dressy separates can make perfect outfits for semi-formal events.

Business Formal is where professionalism meets style. Often a requirement in corporate environments, this dress code is about projecting authority and competence. While it's more structured, there's room for personal expression through color choices and subtle accessories. What to Wear: A suit, a business-style dress, a dress with a jacket and heels (either low or high) are great choices.

Males should be complimented and reinforced for their feminine dress and deportment. Women should be complimented and reinforced for their competency and leadership skills. The women should introduce feminine activities and hobbies to the males. The males should participate in activities that are traditionally associated with femininity, such as cooking, crafting, or dancing. This will help them become more comfortable with their feminine self.

Mistress Amelia asks: There is definitely a rise in feminized men in western countries. What percentage of women desire to feminize men and transition them to a feminine lifestyle?