Being a Sissy

 

I love being a pansy, petal, fairy, flower little girl sissy!

Mistress and Sissy: A Dialogue, episode five

Mistress Amelia asked:

Sissy Annie's goals are:
1. To be a dainty & delicate little girl sissy in the way I think, act and present myself
2. To completely accept female control and never question what I am told to do
3. To be proud to show everyone what a precious little girl and pretty princess I am
Please comment on the appropriateness of these goals and if you would update them in any way or add additional goals. Are these goals universal for all sissies or, if not, how would you write them to make them apply to all sissies?

Dani responds:

I think Annie’s goals are entirely appropriate for her and I wouldn’t change a word of them. In fact, in my interactions with her, I have been working to strengthen her ability and desire to fulfill them.

They are decidedly not universal goals for all sissies. Most sissies are, like me, only part-time in nature (although we would enjoy being able to spend far more time in our feminine guise). Most sissies are not interested in living as pre-school girls, or even as teenagers. For most of us, the goal is to be able to present as an adult woman—in whatever form we think is most attractive. I know submissive crossdressers who are quite content to be able to play the part of a woman of their own age, be it in their 20s or their 70s. Others have an idealized image; for me, it is the women I was most attracted to when I first realized I was a sissy—the fashion icons of the late 1960s and 1970s.

So, I would rewrite them this way:
1. To be a pretty and submissive woman when dressed in feminine attire.
2. To accept the control of superior women and obey them, especially sexually
3. To happily present myself in whatever guise my Mistress desires.

And now, a question for Amelia: If you could create your ultimate sissy, what would she be like—in clothing style, in sexuality, in presentation?