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Femboy Charley


1n our travels to recruit sissies for FISH ACADEMY FOR SISSIES we met Femboy Charlie. He was wearing this darling dress and displayed many feminine characteristics! I had an interesting chat with him.

Emily:  Charlie, that's not a very feminine name for a sissy!

Charlie: That's because I'm not a sissy. I am a femboy! A femboy is a male , typically cisgender,  who expresses himself with traditionally feminine  characteristics such as clothing, mannerisms and aesthetics! I love girls clothes, makeup, jewelry and my voice and my movements are very delicate, dainty and femme. But I still identify myself as male. (AMAB Assigned male at Birth)

Emily:  WOW. But you make such a pretty girl! Wouldn't you want to be completely feminized and sissified?  That is, become a complete sissy and identify as a girl? Just like sissy annie here? (Sissy Annie does a cute curtsy and twirls around to show Charlie how girly she is!)

Charlie:  I'm a femboy, and the only "choice" I've ever made is having to fake being masculine so I don't get harassed or assaulted. My femininity is part of who I am, and it's not just something I can change at will. There are some within the LGBTQIA+ community that do not accept Femboy's as a valid form of identity. Because we still technically classify ourselves (most of us at least) as AMAB. But, here was my thought. If a lot of gender identities fall under the Non-binary spectrum, why isn't femboy accept as one of them? It's all about presentation and how we deep down feel and want to be seen right? I know we have Transfemme, Transmasc, Trans, and others that follow the glorious path of Femboy.

Emily:  What about your gender identity? How do you view yourself?

Charlie:  Well personally I’ve always found that being a femboy is kind of outside the question of gender identity. I know cis male femboys, trans masculine femboys, enbies, a person who has a non-binary gender identity, demi-boys, a non-binary person who identifies as partially boy or man and even trans fem femboys. 

That being said, I still consider femboys to be a part of the LGBTQIA+ community because even if you want to try to be reductive and say the community is only about gender/sexuality, femboys struggle with many of the same challenges and barriers that other members of the community also face.

Emily: What are the common challenges and struggles?

Charlie:  They often have to deal with struggling and accepting their identity, leaning to express themselves and dealing with blowback from family, friends, and the public about something intrinsic to their identity. A lot of femboys need a sense of community for support in dealing with these problems. The same problems faced by people gay, trans, ace, etc.) alike, which is why you often see femboys, even cishet femboys, identifying with the LGBTQIA+ community.

Emily: I think FISH Academy could help you with ypur femininity. Your deportment, makeup, wardrobe, etc. We could help you find the perfect feminine image that fits your feminine image of yourself.  You can remain male. Gender identity will not be part of your training. The focus will be on your femininity. Don't you want to be an even cuter femboy?

Charlie:  I would be interested in that. What's involved?

Emily:  That's excellent! Just  email me at fishacademy4sissies@gmail.com and we'll figure our a curriculum that works to make you more femme!  One more question,  Are you attracted to sissy annie?

Charlie: Sissy Annie is so femme and darling.  She is a delightful little girl. But she is a child which completely surprised me. I could see myself as her daddy or uncle taking her to the zoo or to other fun places that children enjoy!
Emily:  Annie would you like Uncle Charlie to take you to the park or zoo or somewhere else fun?  Maybe you would like to wear matching dresses with Uncle Charlie?
Annie: Yes, Mommy. It would be fun to wear matching dresses! Could we both bring our favorite dollies?
Emily:  Annie I am afraid that Charlie does not have a dolly! Isn't that sad? Maybe we need to get him an American Girl dolly too?
The femboy aesthetic

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Sissy Clare's Cotilion presentation

 

It was springtime, and it was time to present young ladies into public society as debutants.  Ms Emily received an invasion to show one of her sissies to public society.  She chose me to be a young sissy lady.  She decided on a white dress with a little pearl breastplate.  It features a tea-length skirt and a flowing design.  


I wore a strapless bra, white panties, and hose with a garter belt.  Mistress Emily helped me with my dress, hair, and makeup.  I'm so pleased that she helped me get ready.  While she was helping me dress, she kept telling me how pretty I looked and how many of the young, gentle men there would be willing to fill my dance card.   I was both nervous and excited.  





She made sure that I wore a charming and fruitful perfume.  I couldn't believe how much of a young sissy girl I felt like—knowing that  I was a sissy being presented into society as a real girl my age. 



When we arrived at the hotel, I went into the staging room with the rest of the other girls and felt a bit nervous, but once I walked into the waiting room, I was met with sweet greetings as if I were a real female teen girl like them. Many of the other girls there told me how pretty I looked and how excited they were to be introduced to me.  


Once the event began, we stood in line.  Holding our cards and stating who we are and a bit about our background.  A lot of the other girls had a long history of past debuts in their families. Then it was my time.
















I stood there, knees shaking and knocking, and I heard my name called "Miss Claire presented by Mistress Emily."  I walked in and curtsied at everyone.  They all applauded me, taking lots of photos.  

How wonderful I felt, and as I looked over, and saw a huge smile on the face of Ms. Emily.  I know she was so pleased with how I  presented myself.  

The rest of the night, I  danced with all the other escorts., I couldn't have been happier as a young debutante. 

Isn't sissy Claire a darling little sissy? - Mistress Emily

Sissy Claire is sissy annie's baby sitter! She does an excellent job!



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