But for some people being a “sissy” isn’t an accusation to defend oneself against. Instead, “sissy” can be a kinky headspace, a sexual role to take on, or even an important part of one’s identity.
So, let’s talk about sissification kinks and what it means to be a sissy. We’ll explore the eroticism in sissification fantasies, the ways sissification can look in real life, and how you can start exploring being a sissy if it appeals to you.
Along the way, we’ll dispel common myths and address some of the harmful ideas that circulate in sissification spheres.
This is Dr Abigail Dotson. I am a psychotherapist, psychologist and consultant. I have worked with more than 100 people to help them understand who they are and what personal questions they need to answer. Please comment on the blog with your feedback and questions.
Question #1 - Is this person a sissy? Why or why not?
I have never been bothered about being called a sissy. It's a term I adopted for myself as soon as I understood my own sexual personality.
ReplyDeleteEven if didn't already know Annie, I would have pegged the person in the photo as a sissy. It is clearly male (under all the frills) and adult. But the pose is indisputably childish and overtly girlish. A cross-dresser who dresses and acts this way is clearly advertising her submission and willingness to be treated as a little girl.
"sissy" is a complex topic! I am so glad that Dr Dotson will be sharing her expertise with us. Of course that little girl is a sissy (LOL). Her pose is delicate and dainty (bent knee, one foot on her toes and a gentle tug on her dress). She loves her pretty dress!
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