Dani's Philosophy: Ashamed and Aroused

Continuing a series on female domination and feminization

“I’m so ashamed and humiliated to be wearing a dress…and my cock is so stiff and hard because of it!”

A frequent comment from a submissive feminized male, as he discovers that he is aroused not only by the look and feel of feminine attire, but by the emotions they stir—primarily ones of embarrassment and shame. He learns that the more he is aroused by being seen as a sissy, the more he is humiliated by it…and as his humiliation grows, his arousal grows. The combination only makes his newly feminine nature and appearance more appealing, more sexually satisfying, more desirable.

The wise femdom will use this to increase his submission to her. When he expresses these feelings, when she sees his cock grow in his pretty panties, she will order him to lower them, so she can bring him to orgasm with her hands. This will further cement the relationship between looking and feeling girlish with sexual satisfaction in his mind. “If I wear pretty clothes, I will get to come,” he realizes. She will do everything she can to increase his humiliation, exposing his feminized self to others—especially attractive women and girls—making sure they see his arousal and embarrassment and that they openly comment upon it.

The femdom should prolong these experiences until the sissy begs for sexual release. She is in charge; she controls the time, place and circumstance of his orgasms. He will learn that the more feminine and obedient he is, the more he will be allowed to come.