My first subject at princess charm school is meeting & greeting manners. It's all about a very polite way to meet and greet people. I have a special way that I greet people that mommy wants me to meet. I do a perfect curtsy and then I introduce myself "Pleased to meet you ma'am. My name is Annie and I'm 5 years old. This is my pretty dolly Samantha. How may I please you ma'am?" Then I curtsy again and give the person my personal card.
Mommy says that if I do a good job then I will receive lovely compliments. For extra special compliments mommy rewards me.
When I am meeting someone my age I just say "Hi" and give them a warm hug. Then I say "How are you?" I also say ""How are you?" to relatives and friends. To adults I know I always do a curtsy first and then "How are you?". I also like to say "Good Morning" instead of "Hi". My teacher says that is acceptable also. She taught me that saying a friendly greeting is a way of saying "I care about you". I love that!!
I have also been taught not to speak unless I am spoken to. If I desire to speak I put a finger gently on my lips. If I am given permission to talk I must speak slowly, clearly and keep it short. If am not given permission right away then it means the time is not right for me to speak. Children, and especially sissies, must learn patience and that we are not the center of attention.
Introducing people - This is mostly for when I introduce my girlfriends to mommy, relatives or other little girlfriends. Like this: "Mommy this is Anna. She is a new girl in the neighborhood and she also loves Disney Princesses and American Girl dolls." My teacher says there are many other situations where people need to be introduced to others. But that's too complex for a 5 year old child like me so I should leave that to others.
How to call people - I am to call all adults either "Ma'am" or "Sir". For relatives "Mommy" or "Auntie", "Uncle". I am to call young women "Ms" and little girls "Miss" and then their names like "Miss Amy".
Conversation with girlfriends - There are lots of things to remember:
- Always include everyone in the conversation
- It is not polite to whisper to one person in front of another
- Always listen especially when talking
- Learn to hold my thoughts until someone speaking is done
- Everyone needs to have a chance to talk.
- Never says things that may hurt others feelings
- Always use those special magic words: Please, Thank You, Excuse me, I'm Sorry
- Sissies never talk unless spoken to or are given permission to talk.
On Sunday we went to a girlfriend of mommy's for Easter lunch. There were lots of other children there and all of the girls wearing very pretty dresses. They were all using their best manners. I had to practice all of the manners I am learning and also do lots of pretty curtseys.
I learned something new. Girls and women only curtsy for royalty. (Kings, queens and the like). But sissies curtsy to everyone. That is so that we always remember our place and who we are.
Mommy and my teacher, Mistress Dale will comment here on my behavior and progress.
Sissy Princess Annie
Annie is very excited to learn and show everyone that she has exceptional manners. As a sissy she has a lot to overcome. But with practice and dedication she will be the perfect sissy princess.
ReplyDeleteAnnie MUST remember to show love and kindness in everything she feels and does.That means also being properly obedient, deferential, meek, passive and compliant to her superiors.
She enjoys introducing herself with a proper intro and curtsy. She is still a bit awkward and nervous. That will come in time. She is required to practice her curtsey a couple of hours a day as she recites “I am a pansy, petal, fairy, flower sissy girl”.
She is doing better at not speaking unless spoken to. She loves to talk but then can overwhelm others. She needs more coaching about conversing with her girlfriends. Annie is not ready to move on to the next lesson.
Like any other child her age Annie loves to be the center of attention. After awhile it gets annoying. Good that she is learning not to speak unless spoken to.
DeleteHow absolutely perfect! Especially that she curtsies and introduces herself and her dolly! So extremely sissy.
DeleteI would love to see a video of Annie practicing her curtsy in front of the mirror as she recites “I am a pansy, petal, fairy, flower sissy girl”. So darling.
DeleteMy prissy pansy still has a great deal to work on to improve her manners. It's going to take lots of real life experiences to make this second nature.
DeleteWell done! More intense sissification is required!
DeleteI must say that I love that she has regressed to a vulnerable child who clings to her dollies and is learning to be a perfect sissy princess.
ReplyDeleteThat is correct, Annie. Only cute little sissies curtsy these days. That is a sign of your submission and obedience. A meak and compliant little girl sissy!
ReplyDeleteYou are a pansy, petal, fairy, flower sissy girl”. And loving it, Annie.
ReplyDeleteI can only imagine all the sweet compliments you receive after you curtsy and introduce yourself. What question do you get asked the most?
ReplyDeleteThese are foundational manners that will enable our little sissy to become the sweet and compliant little princess she must be. The pansy, petal, fairy, flower sissy girl of her dreams.
ReplyDeleteWhat a good little sissy princess you are!!
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